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The barbershop was special to me then and it is special to me now. As an entrepreneur I have owned various businesses. Throughout it all I have been the owner of a barbershop, just because it is what I love to do. I love to offer the space as it was given to me back then. The barbershop is our sacred space. It is the space for men in the black community where we can be ourselves, talk “real talk”, chastise, tease, and laugh with each other. It is where you can come to be fed, nurtured and nourished. It is where we take care of each other physically, aesthetically, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually.
Now you can see some crazy things too. You can see grown men who don’t deal well with reality and escape. Or you have those who reach back to an earlier time in their lives and who get stuck in reliving that time. Nothing cute about grown men trying to act like teenagers. You also have youngsters that have not had guidance and come in with their puffed up chest, not even knowing how to greet or relate to people. That’s why we always make sure to greet and connect with them, take some of that puff out of their chest. You don’t have to prove anything to come in here, you can just be yourself. And then there are the women. Some bring their sons, hoping we will fix more than their hair. There are all kinds of men and women dynamics that have affected us, from absent fathers to overbearing mothers, to relationship issues.
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